is there an easier or maybe a more polite way to say to someone that you are rejected for something??i guess not...
Should i be frustrated over this???i guess not...
Should i be happy about it??of course not!
so what should i do to shove off this uneasy feeling at the pit of my stomach??
Firman Allah s.w.t
“Boleh jadi kamu membenci sesuatu, padahal ia amat baik bagimu, dan boleh jadi (pula) kamu menyukai sesuatu, padahal ia amat buruk bagimu; Allah mengetahui, sedangkan kamu tidak mengetahui.” (Al-Baqarah: 216)
there, i found the perfect healing power which i found in the holy Quran..just what i really needed at this breaking point..heartbroken?yes,but lessen after i read this words of almighty God...
some people would kill their frustration by doing more frustrating activities;
1- eating a whole carton of ice cream- this will make you fat, which gives you a more depressing appearance, which eventually will make u feel even worse!
2- cry yourself a river- a waste of body fluids which is extremely detrimental to health. besides, it'll make you sleep even easier because when you cry so hard, you tend to get sleepy very easily, which is waste of the valuable times you have to value the beauty of life.
3- hang yourself to death/jump off a building-need i say more about this??
STOP ALL THIS!!!!!
i think the best way to kill that uneasy feeling,frustration and heartbreak is by giving yourself a teeny weeny bit of reverse psychology..get it??no??ok..
When you are all tensed up, you automatically can't, incapable of pulling of a smile.soooooo, why can't it be the other way around..
X: hey! i heard you broke up with your boyfriendssss...
Y: (frustrated inside)yeeaahhh...heheheheheheheehhe =D
see?? a little giggle, regardless if it's a fake one or without sincerity, could help you lessen the negative feelings you have..
When you are heartbroken, the trick is to glue them back altogether.How??easy...
entertain yourself! do anything fun and amusing. list down a few activities which represent the pieces of your broken heart. when you put up at least a smile after doing one activity, assume that a piece of your heart is glued back.
well, these are just some of the remedies that i've come up with to console myself whenever i'm heartbroken. I intend to look at things, i.e the rejection from a different perspective. Maybe...just maybe, i didn't get what i wanted because it really is not the best for me..Instead of blaming myself or worse, cursing myself, I told myself that which ever road you take, as long as you arrive to that particular destination, that's what counts in the end.
so MARA, you let me down but you haven't succeeded in killing me. I still have Allah, my one true love that will always be beside me,forever and ever. Allah, whatever you have planned for me, i want You to know that I'll be patiently waiting for it.
tetibe tringat kat lagu Always Be There-Maher Zain
Maher Zain, you really have 'pujuk' me..hahahahhahahahaha
p/s-congratulations to all my friends who have been offered MARA scholarships!!make me proud guys and gals!!
UIA HERE I COME!!!
jadi ustazah lah aku lepas ni...insyaallah...